May 26-27, 2012 (NYC): Creating and Living Positive BDSM & Kinky Lifestyle Relationships

This two-day workshop is for individuals, couples and families who identify with a kinky or BDSM lifestyle and desire to incorporate it into their daily lives – irrespective of gender identity, sexuality or kink interests. It is intended for anyone who wants to start a new relationship, take an existing one to the next level, or simply wants to learn more about alternative lifestyle relationships.
Major topics include:
  • Finding and meeting potential partners in the scene
  • Building lifestyle relationships that lead to the greatest likelihood of long-term success
  • Keeping the “magic” in our relationships for the long-term
  • Fulfilling our and our partners sexual, S&M and kinky needs
  • What do we mean by “good communication”? Building effective communication tools and skills
  • Dealing with common lifestyle related issues, and successfully navigating conflicts in alternative lifestyle relationship
This is a highly interactive and immersive workshop, with group and role-play exercises throughout. It culminates with a “without-a-safety-net” Q&A panel discussion featuring lifestyle couples/families in various relationship structures.
Where:
Location sent upon registration (in Manhattan)
When:
Saturday, May 26, from 10 AM to 5:30 PM
Sunday, May 27, from 10 AM to 4 PM
Registration:
$95 (early registration discount – you need to register before May 1); $120 (from May 1). Class size is limited… early registration is strongly recommended.To register click here
The registration fee includes meals (lunches and refreshments on Saturday and Sunday), and detailed workshop handouts and workbooks.
Instructors:
This workshop series is brought to New York City by Eric Pride (click for bio) and Sir Stephen (click for bio), both having their own unique lifestyle households. The event is hosted by NYC Kinky Living.The workshop has been offered since October in 2010 in New York City, and has been featured in Time Out New York (click for article).


“Within the same week of attending the class with my partner, I noticed many of our issues resolving in a non-confrontational manner…”


“After a very informative class, right at the end Sir Stephen made a final comment that was very insightful for me dealing with my “relationship status”. It was something I had been struggling to find the words for, but his knowledgeable point of view and real life practices made things fall into place.”


“I changed my weekend plans just so I could attend the next lecture!”
                                           Workshop Schedule                                           
Saturday (10A M – 5:30 PM)
  • Crucial First Steps: Creating Foundations for Healthy BDSM Lifestyle Relationships
  • Turning the “Magic Key”: Maintaining Healthy BDSM Lifestyle Relationships and Putting It All Together
  • Q&A
Sunday (10 AM – 4:00 PM)
  • Not Just Roses: Successful Problem Resolution in BDSM and Kinky Lifestyle Relationships
  • Panel Discussion: BDSM Lifestyle Couples Share Their Relationship Experiences
  • Q&A
Classes do not follow the traditional lecture style format. Instead, they are highly interactive and hands-on. Both days allow plenty of time for Q&A. Participants receive detailed course materials and workbooks.
For detailed descriptions of each topic see below.
    Crucial First Steps: Establishing & Creating Foundations for Healthy BDSM Lifestyle RelationshipsThis class provides participants with practical information, skills and tools that contribute to establishing and creating BDSM lifestyle relationships with the greatest likelihood of long-term success. We will discuss topics such as:
  • How to begin a relationship (dating)
  • How to build a relationship in ways that will provide the greatest likelihood of long-term success
  • Identifying those elements which make lifestyle relationships unique
  • Distinctive advantages – and responsibilities – that accrue to lifestyle relationships
  • Basic safety issues of the lifestyle
    Turning the “Magic Key”: Maintaining Healthy BDSM Lifestyle Relationships
How do we keep the “magic” in our relationships long-term? What tools are available to assist in the maintenance and deepening of healthy and productive lifestyle relationships? In this class we explore and examine techniques and tools that can be used to maintain successful lifestyle relationships over time. This class will cover topics such as:
  • Establishing and refining communication skills
  • How to further deepen our relationships
  • How to keep them fresh and interesting
  • How to fulfill our and our partners sexual, BDSM and kinky needs
    Not Just Roses: Successful Problem Resolution in BDSM and Kinky Lifestyle Relationships
How do our alternative relationships differ & compare to “vanilla” ones? Everyday relationships are hard enough to navigate, when you add kink into the mix, it can become more complicated.
This class examines the pitfalls (and solutions) that can occur in BDSM and other kinky relationships. We develop and discuss effective ways in which to address and resolve relationship problems, including topics such as:
  • Dealing with and addressing emotions
  • Steps to successful problem resolution
  • Common issues and problems in alternative and BDSM lifestyle relationships
  • Relationship “contracts”
  • Open, multilateral, and poly relationships
  • How to deal with jealousy
    Panel Discussion: BDSM Lifestyle Couples Share Their Relationship Experiences
The panel discussion aims to explore, compare and contrast the BDSM lifestyle relationships such as Daddy/girl, Mommy/girl, Daddy/boy, D/s and M/s, poly and “weekend warriors”. It will be a unique opportunity to learn from the couples/families represented on the panel as they openly – and without safety net – share their experiences and talk about:
  • How they built and deepened their relationships
  • Their most useful tools for maintaining their relationships
  • Their kinks, BDSM and sexual interaction
  • How they worked their way through difficulties in their relationships
  •  . . . and much more!

1 Comment on "May 26-27, 2012 (NYC): Creating and Living Positive BDSM & Kinky Lifestyle Relationships"

  1. Loretta · November 23, 2013 at 2:33 pm · Reply

    I just sent you a friend request on FL as well. I was really interested in knowing if you are going to be offering this workshop again anytime soon?

    Thanks, swan

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